Kang Chiao 菁英活动志工团队

两个多月，转瞬即逝，从一次次集会，一次次练舞，再到进班与八年级的同学见面，三天正式活动。一切都太快了。回想起第一次进班前非常自信，因为带过了一届七年级新生成长营。但是进去之后才发现八年级和七年级学生真的完全不一样。对待七年级，我只要凶一下，他们就会安静，但在八年级这里就不行，甚至会适得其反。进班结束后我其实有一点担心，我怕我自己管不住他们。活动第一天，我们一开始有一个仪态训练。我发现完全不能用一样的管理方式--“吼叫”式管理。而是与他们去沟通，心平气和的去和他们说，不要把他们当成小孩子去沟通。随着活动的开始，我发现他们真的非常可爱！！我可以从他们身上看见自己当时的影子，年少轻狂，唯我独尊，要面子，但内心却是很敏感。就比如说第二天我是负责齐心协力的关卡，然后在比赛过程中，我发现有个男孩违反规则了，他手碰到排球了，当我指出来之后，他态度很强硬，并一直在说他没有，我当时有点情绪化，我就态度非常强硬，完全不留情面的说：你就是违反规定了，并且还不承认，还在这浪费大家的时间！有没有一点团队精神？然后晚上的时候，那个男生的代班教官跟我说那个小男孩后来还哭了。我当时有点处理不当，这也是我需要去提升的。

More than two months passed, from one gathering to another practicing dance, and then to meeting with eighth grade students in class, three days of formal activities. It's all too fast. Recall the first time I entered the class, I was very confident, because I had led a seventh grade freshman growth camp. But after I went in, I found that the students in Grade 8 and grade 7 were really different. In the seventh grade, I only need to be fierce, and they will be quiet, but not in the eighth grade. It will even backfire. After entering the class, I was a little worried. I was afraid that I could not control them. On the first day of the activity, we had a posture training at the beginning. I find it impossible to use the same management style - "roaring" management. Don't talk to them, but communicate with them peacefully. With the start of the event, I found that they were really cute!! I can see their own shadow from them. They are young, frivolous, egotistical and face saving, but their hearts are very sensitive. For example, the next day, I was responsible for the level of concerted efforts, and then in the process of the game, I found that a boy broke the rules, his hand touched the volleyball, and when I pointed out, he was very tough, and kept saying that he did not. I was a little emotional at that time, and I was very tough, totally ruthless and said: you are violating the rules, and you still don't admit it, Still wasting everyone's time here! Is there a little team spirit? Then in the evening, the boy's substitute instructor told me that the little boy later cried. I was a bit mishandled and that's what I need to improve.

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